Where Are We Headed?

Walking into our schools, our teenage selves not only expect respect, but we demand it. Some will deny this, but the average confident teenager will show up already holding themselves with a certain attitude, whether that attitude be exemplary or pitiful. We, most of us filling the shoes of this role, hold our teachers to high standards based on these start-of-the-day expectations but sometimes leave class complaining about that very teacher we expect to deliver their foremost.

However, in my observations, I deduct that we students do not truly air complaints about our teachers the majority of the time. Our complaints are cloaked in a series of jabs at whichever teacher runs the classroom, but where are the complaints rooted? Do our teachers all deserve the blame if we are dissatisfied with our day to day classes?

While I’d be inaccurate to deem all educators works of faultless perfection, I believe that, at least in my school, there are talented teachers who mean well and do their absolute best. Still, my ears are littered with a daily barrage of grumbling new flaws about the same teachers I myself admire. They start here:

“She gave us homework again?” an incredulous whisper hisses snakelike and venomous under my teacher explaining the lesson plan to us. “Well, I had no idea. I don’t have it done.”

Or,

“Is he checking the reading notes today?” another despairs. “I only have a few pages to go! I got home so late last night!”

This may only paraphrase a mixture of student commentary from my school year so far, but it doesn’t change the subject matter. These students, all of them signed up in Advanced Placement courses alongside me, usually go on to badmouth our teachers when they can. Usually, these conversational groans of discontent are nothing that high school students take very seriously, just as long as the teacher doesn’t overhear them. After careful consideration to this viewpoint, I believe we must take our thoughts about our educators into more cautious consideration, for we are damaging ourselves through our actions. This session of complaint could be seen as a group of stressed high schoolers dropping a weight off their shoulders. I could understand that theory to an extent.

But do we have a weight so constant on our shoulders that we feel compelled to drop it at every chance we get? That is weak, and that is the purest form of laziness.

I choose now, after dissecting complaints of peers, friends and, at times, even that voice that lives in the back of every human mind (including my own), that this is a mere excuse for students with insufficient work ethics.

These are the students that want every bit of success their hands may grasp without any of the shoe leather it takes to walk ten miles across burning asphalt. These are the flip-flop students. These are the students that sign up for classes that will contribute towards a higher GPA, passing themselves off as the higher-minded and responsible while they don’t start their homework until ten o’clock at night.

Proof made itself in my AP Physics class. My classmates and I were assigned an egg drop project and had ample time to complete the project. My table mate, however, arrived for days later with no project. No visible remorse revealed itself. He just wanted to get out of trouble without receiving a bad grade or disapproving judgement. His next move was to text his mother, asking to be signed out. She managed to get there in time enough to bail him out of responsibility for his bad decisions. Similarly, there are reports of parents emailing teachers to request that teachers extend due dates on assignments that were due six weeks before. In a study by the Higher Learning Commission, a survey of college professors asked why they believed their students failed showed that thirty eight percent of cited responses said that the reason was that students were unprepared for college work. If near adult students can’t succeed in college and rely on their parents to “solve” their problems, what kind of morale are we building our workforce on? What kind of fiber? Who are these students in reality?

These students are, as a teacher once drilled into my skull, the students that double their odds of failure after high school because they “don’t do that hard stuff.” These students are, if they should succeed through college, the ones who get a job because they have a degree and do not develop a career that started when they earned their degree. According to The Washington Post, only twenty seven percent of recent college graduates have taken a career in the field their degree qualifies them for. Degrees and college tuitions are being wasted. Society is destroying the value of our education system.

My teacher may have seen the reality harshly and lectured us too fiercely, but I cannot admit that she is absolutely wrong, just as I cannot admit that all complainers are failures.

I can’t shake the thought from my head, of course, as I hear the complaining around my desk, and I wish I could turn off the voices of us students berating a valuable teacher and person. Maybe it would stop me wondering who will fail and who will lose or questioning the work ethic of myself and my peers. Such questions can offend and kill a chance at being liked in an environment like the one I muddle through. This overall mood needs someone questioning it, no matter what the consequences.

Because of this, I see a cycle of complaining about a decent, hardworking teacher instead of accepting personal responsibility as a grave character flaw that sets us up for failure in any academic endeavor. High test scores and GPAs are wonderful tidbits for a college application, but the application isn’t much more than a paper door to invite the best version of a student to start their life. If we choose to leave the best version of ourselves with our foot caught in that door, complaining that we can’t move forward because we’re stuck, we will never take another good step. Even if we manage to pull our foot from that door, we’ll always walk with a limp, wishing we had a some parental buttress or a crutch of excuses.

Take responsibility for academics now. Drop false blame with the crutch because it’s time a generation of high schoolers see the need to grow in not only our knowledge but our natures as well.

Or, I suppose, we may face our future as it will come, decades of a growing margin beyond that twenty seven percent. Our age is the time accept blame for our actions and affirm a no-excuses lifestyle to ensure our livelihoods, committing to more statistics ruling in our favor. It’s up to us.

Will we be the generation that failed to thrive or the generation that thrived in the face of failure?

Citations:

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• "Why Do Students Fail? Faculty's Perspective." Why Do Students Fail? Faculty's Perspective. N.p., n.d. Web. 16 Dec. 2015. <http://cop.hlcommission.org/Learning-Environments/cherif.html>.
• "Only 27 Percent of College Grads Have a Job Related to Their Major."Washington Post. The Washington Post, n.d. Web. 16 Dec. 2015. <https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2013/05/20/only-27-percent-of-college-grads-have-a-job-related-to-their-major/>.